Hey friend.  If you're overwhelmed with your high conflict custody case, there is something I want you to know.

 

The legal process is a TOOL.

 

It is not a complicated machine that is rigged against you.

 

It is not a horrible storm that you have to run through or get away from.

 

It is not an out-of-control vehicle barreling down the road while you're stuck in the passenger seat.  (That's the wrong place for you to be sitting, by the way.)

 

It is simply a Tool.

 

You either use the Tool to create results that will serve you and your children. . .

 

. . . OR you let the Tool use you.

 

Easy choice, right?

 And the truth about this tool is that it is not difficult to use.

 

 You just need someone to show you how.

 

I'm raising my hand right now.  (I know -- you can't see me.)

Hey, friend.  I’m Janie.

 

I’ve been a divorce and custody lawyer for over twenty years, so I’ve learned a few things about negotiating contested cases. . .

 

. . . and I know this about you.


You are the most qualified person to negotiate your contested custody case, and I can make you a pro at it.

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For a veeery long time, your only option to get real help in your custody case has been to work with a lawyer one-on-one. . .

 

. . . which usually means you pay the lawyer a large retainer. . .

 

. . . and the lawyer bills you by the hour for the time that he spends on your case.

 

This model works for some, but it excludes many.

 

If you are one of the many. . .

 

Maybe you've tried to piece together bits of free information from the internet. . .

 

. . . or from well-intended friends and family who offer "advice" based on their second cousin's housekeeper's son's very contentious custody case.

 

Most of that free information has totally freaked you out, right?!

An outdated (aka "dinosaur") business model that excludes a lot of people doesn't really sit well with me, because. . . 

 

I'm kind of passionate about access.

 

And I don't just mean access to information.

 

I'm talking about access to knowledge and experience. . .

 

. . . the kind you only get from working more than two decades (and counting!) as a trial lawyer in family court.

With that kind of knowledge and experience, you see patterns. . . 

 

. . . and those patterns can be distilled into a framework that can be taught to many others.  (See.  I'm back to that access thing again.)

 

A framework that will show you how to COMMAND your custody case.

The problem with your custody case is not your ex (and this is actually good news). . .

 

It is not the "system" . . .

 

or the lawyers and judges. . . 

 

. . . or with you not being smart enough to understand what is happening.

 

The real problem is this -- Right now, you're not using the legal process to serve you and your children.

 

You think you need to get away from it -- or "get it over with" -- as quickly as possible.  Sound familiar?

 

If that does sound familiar, then I really want you to hear me on this -- it is not your fault.

 

No one has ever even told you that the legal process is a tool, much less shown you how to use it properly.

 

If someone would just do that, your custody case would be simple.

 

(My hand is still raised.)

I'm raising my hand because I know that I can cut through the confusion and overwhelm that is weighing you down

 

. . . and, I can do it in twelve weeks.  In fact, that's exactly what I do inside of

Command your Custody Case is my twelve-week small group program where I'll walk you step-by-step through a process that will get you results in your contested custody case.

 

This is the same process that I've used in my family law practice for over twenty years (and counting) to represent my one-on-one clients.

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Time-Tested Strategies + Personalized Support = RESULTS

Here is what you'll learn from me inside of the program.

Module 1 - Focus on What Matters

If your custody case is spinning out of control, you'll know how to reign it in.  In this module, I'll tell you exactly what to focus on to move your case forward.

There is an art to co-parenting when you're in the midst of a contested custody case.  Those who learn and implement the art are the ones who achieve success and peace of mind.

Module 2 - Co-Parent with Confidence

Module 3 - Build your Case

Gather the information and documents you need for your case using the same forms and strategies that I've used for the last 20+ years as a divorce and custody lawyer.

There is a method to negotiating the results you want in your case.  I'll teach you that method and how to execute on it.

Module 4 - Negotiate Effectively Outside of Court

Module 5 - Present with Polish in Court

Presenting your case with polish and inspiring the Judge's confidence in you are two skills that you can learn.  And I am the perfect person to teach them to you.

Module 1 - Pour the Foundation

A strong case is built on a solid foundation.  You'll learn what your case is really about so you can focus on what matters, and set yourself up for success from the beginning.

Module 2 - Build your Case

Gather the information and documents you need for your case using the same forms and strategies that I've used for the last 20+ years as a divorce and custody lawyer.

Module 3 - Negotiate Effectively

There is a method to getting the results you want in your case.  In this module, I'll teach you that method and how to execute on it.

Module 4 - Money

I'll teach you exactly what judges are looking for when they're asked to decide disputes about child support and child-related expenses.

Module 5 - Your Children

You will not resolve the disputed custody issues in your case until three very specific questions are answered.  I'll tell you what they are and teach you how to get the answers you want.

Module 6 - The In-Court Lane

Presenting your case with polish and inspiring the Judge's confidence in you are two skills that you can learn.  And I am the perfect person to teach them to you, which is what I do in this Module.

So, yeah, contentious custody cases are definitely my jam.  But, don't take my word for it, look at what others have to say about working with me. . .

"I just want to send you a message giving you a sincere Thank You for all that you do. . .  You rock!" 

-Jamie

"I've been celebrating since Thursday [day of final divorce hearing.]  Everything went great! It was quick and painless. Thank you SO much for everything. I truly appreciate your guidance and all of the content you created. It was super easy to follow and extremely helpful."

-Patricia

"Thank you for your confidence in me.  I’ve come a long way with your guidance and support and I appreciate you so much.”

-Meghan

"Your insight and explanation of how to incorporate the formula really cuts through the thought clutter in my head and blows my mind in the best way." 

- Catherine

"I served my ex with the paperwork I had filed.  After that, we had two conversations.  Both were long and filled with his requests that I just do what he wants (and his comment that I'm 'stupid').  I wanted you to know that, because of your coaching, I felt much more prepared to deal with these conversations, and had a quicker 'recovery' from speaking with him." 

- Hillary

"I wanted to share a story where your coaching helped me.  . . This weekend I was trying to confirm with my ex where we would exchange the kids. . .  After three ignored messages I realized I needed to take my power back.  I sent a message saying what I was going to do. . . and suddenly I get a reply.  The reply wasn’t exactly nice but it was just words on a screen and I knew what I was doing and when/where I would get my children which is all that matters.

I’m forever grateful I met you."

- Erin

Janie, u r the best! I am grateful for all you have done. You have navigated professionally  as well as power and class thru this. . . You kept your cool and kept me in line that nothing has gone wrong.  I can never thank you enough for your patience.  Forever grateful.

 

-Linda

Are you thinking this is the perfect fit for you?  Let's make sure. . .

 

I am 100% confident that I can show you exactly what to do to bring your custody case to a negotiated conclusion, and. . . 

You need to decide if you're ready to commit, because we do not mess around in here.  Here's how you'll know. . . 

This Program is NOT for you if. . .

  • You're looking for a place to complain, martyr yourself, or tell a story in which you are the victim and your EX or the "system" is the villain.
  • You're convinced that things will be easier when your EX (or something else outside of you) changes, and you're willing to wait around for that to happen.
  • You're not interested in getting results if it means you'll have to take action even when you're outside of your comfort zone.

This Program IS for you if. . .

  • You have an active case in family court -  OR, you're thinking of filing one --  and you want an expert to show you how to cut through the overwhelm and get to the finish line the right way.
  • You want to negotiate and communicate with the ex confidently and productively without getting sucked into a black hole of conflict.
  • You're not afraid of a little work, and you're ready to roll up your sleeves and own your decisions.
  • You crave honest, practical advice, even when it's not exactly what you want to hear in that moment.  (If that's not you, click away from this page because I'm definitely not the right coach for you.)
YES this IS for me! I'm ready to talk.

Inside of the program, I'll teach you things that your ex -- and even some of my divorce-lawyer colleagues  -- do not want you to know . . .

 

. . . because when you have less confidence, your ex has more power. . . 

 

. . . because you don't need to "just get it done."  You need to create a resolution that will bring peace to your post-divorce life.

Wondering what's included in the program? | I'm so glad you asked.

Access

As soon as you join, you'll gain immediate access to the library of content that I've personally refined over my two decades as a divorce and custody lawyer.  Your access to the content is unlimited lifetime access. . . for a one-time fee that is less than what you'd pay a lawyer for one court appearance. (You're welcome.)

Guidance

And, listen, I'm not just dumping a bunch of content on you and then disappearing.  I'll be prompting you to move through the content one step at a time.  You'll also have unlimited email access to me during the twelve-week program.

Live Coaching Sessions

You'll be able to attend  twelve weekly live sessions with me (via Zoom) where you can ask questions and get expert coaching and guidance from me.  These will be small-group sessions so that every single person that attends the call will get personalized attention from me.

You want in?  Then let's talk.

I accept a limited number of clients into the program.

 

Click the button to schedule a free call with me.  In 20 minutes, we'll figure out if this program will work for you.

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